Monday, May 25, 2009

What are some good sex positions?

Sexual Positions

There are more sex positions than any one person could ever list. Good thing this is a post will give u some info . Let's get you two started:

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What are some good sex positions?

Sexual Positions

There are more sex positions than any one person could ever list. Good thing this is a wiki. Let's get you two started:

The Basics

  1. Cowgirl. This is girl-on-top and is probably one of the most favorable positions for a woman because she has all the control. She determines the speed, the depth - everything - while you have the best view of her body. Make the most of it - use your hands - you were given two of them.
  2. Missionary. This is guy-on-top position. It's probably the most common, but is also associated as the most boring. Want to spice it up? Try it somewhere other than the bedroom!
  3. Doggy. This is exactly what it sounds like. She will be on "all fours" while he is knelt behind her. This position allows for the deepest of deep penetration, where you can, again, use your hands for clitoral stimulation. You could do this both with her legs together or apart.
  4. Bendover. Can be done just about anywhere, especially in those moments when neither of you can bare to make it to the bedroom. She just needs to bend over any object or furniture while you are standing behind her.
  5. Spread Eagle. This is oral stimulation for her. She lies on her back.
  6. Riding the Face. This is also oral stimulation for her. The title should explain it well enough.
  7. Reverse Cowgirl. This is also girl-on-top, except backwards (facing away from you).
  8. 69. Oral stimulation for both partners at the same time. This is achieved by one person laying on his or her back, while the other is facing them on top... except, well, they're upside-down.
  9. Spoon. In this position, both of you lay on your sides, male behind the female, with her back facing you. Wrap your legs up around hers, just as if you were a spoon, and you've got it.
  10. Deep Impact. This is done on the edge.. of the bed, the couch, or any edge you can find. She lays on her back on the edge of said bed with feet up in the air while you are kneeling on the floor.
  11. Scissors. Legs are intertwined in such a way that it kind of looks like a pair of scissors if viewed from above. This one's kind of hard to explain, so if you looked up Scissors on Google or something, it might show you a diagram.
  12. Stand and Carry. The guy needs to be strong in order to achieve this one - this is one in which you "carry" her, but will need to help make her bounce a little bit. She needs to be facing you with her legs wrapped tightly around your waist.

Of course, just about all of these positions have different variations. For instance, with the Cowgirl position, instead of you lying flat on your back, you could be reclined on the couch or sitting up in a chair. Or in the Missionary, she could throw her legs over your shoulders if she's flexible enough instead of leaving her legs down. Just about any of the positions she could either have her legs together or apart - together seems to allow for more friction, which is a plus.

One important thing to remember though: no matter the position, make use of touch. Touch is just as important as anything else - touch with your fingers, touch with your lips, whatever. Touch somewhere with something.

Just as important as the position, is also the environment. Sex can be boring if done in the same place, at the same time, in the same way every single time. Try doing it places other than on the bed in the bedroom. The couch is a good place to go because it's more firm than a bed. Also, the floor is a good place and can be comfortable with pillows. You can also just bend over just about anything - the coffee table, the kitchen counter, a chair, in the shower, etc. It can even be fun to "go back to old times" and use the backseat of your car.

Another way to liven up sex, make use of toys. You can use a vibrating ring around the base of your penis, or even use a vibrator on her.